Daily Dose of BS May 12 anniversary

I always hate when people say that they married their best friend.  I didn’t, I married the girl I loved, and as a matter of fact still do.  Sure we have our ups and downs and honestly what couple doesn’t what family or what relationship doesn’t?  You know something, the good has far out weighed the bad, and here is the thing we still talk, I mean we talk and listen and share our lives, I am not sure if that is the secret of longevity but it has been part of the magic of our relationship.  Talking, listening, laughing and having fun seem to be the 4 cornerstones of what makes our relationship work.  Today we are celebrating our 27^th anniversary, or 3 to the 3^rd power (3x3x3), and for us the number 3 has an unplanned common thread between us all, because there is 3 years between us, 30 years between Macia and Hayden our oldest, 30 years between me and Zak our middle son, 3 years between each of the kids and 3 minutes between the twins, here’s hoping for the best year ever.  

Daily Dose of BS May11 advice

I have been spending lots of time and having some heart to hearts with my 18 year old as he gets ready for after graduation.  I think he will do just fine, he was named co-technology and engineering student of the year at an awards ceremony.  Ever thought about what is the best advice you ever got?  Try hard, don’t look back, look to the future, but don’t wish your life away, DREAM. You know as a Dad you can learn a lot by just listening, but sometimes I have a hard time turning off my interview mode from work, where I have to keep conversations going, I sometimes get accused of grilling him and the other kids. My response is if you answered in more than just one word answers or grunts conversations would be just that a conversation. What are some of the gems you got from your parents when they thought you weren’t listening? I always remember don’t be afraid to get your hands dirty cause you can always wash them.

Daily Dose of BS May 10 fbi fired

The big news around Facebook last night and I am assuming the coffee machine this morning is that Donald Trump has fired James Comey as FBI director.  I guess I thought that the President could fire anyone that he wants.  I think that it looks bad that the Comey gets fired when he is looking into Russia’s influence over the election but I also don’t get why a federal agency is looking into this anyway.  Here is what I mean don’t you think that a nonpartisan group of people should be looking into these types of things, a group that won’t feel the pinch for their job when they uncover stuff.  I think that most of the stuff that is happening in Washington is corrupt, and that there are things that are going on and that have been going on for decades that when uncovered will creep you out.   

Daily Dose of BS May 9 social media

I could see social media blocking becoming a thing.  Four schools in Madison are undergoing a test between now and the end of the school year, these four schools are blocking access via the free public wi-fi for social media apps including Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter, Instragram and about 30 other social media apps that are a drain on not only our children’s time but many adults as well.  They are hoping that this experiment will help kids who are disengaged in school to perk up and pay more attention to the world around them.  We have all seen kids and adults walking with their eyes glued to their devices.  I personally think that this is a great idea, maybe turning it on during lunch for kids to “catch up” then back off.  I think of it as when I am eating Doritos and can’t stop bringing the bag into the other room and leaving it there to put the temptation out of reach.  

Daily Dose of BS May 8 leftovers

I know some people who don’t eat leftovers, I on the other hand like leftovers, no meal planning and a quick grab and heat meal on a busy day.  In our house hold there are 5 of us living there and everyone has a different schedule.  We try to get together and have family meals as often as we can, and that is at least 1x a week, the past week however was a bit different, I don’t think that we all sat down and had a meal together at all.  Weird how some of the things that you used to do every day and things that you have taken for granted have slip from the grasps of your fingertips, not for lack of trying but because we are busy being busy.  With one of our children getting ready to embark on the next stage of his life graduating from high school later this month, and the twins starting drivers ed, I guess onward and upward.  If your life is changing, and I know that it is because our lives always change, take the time to slow it down, and think back to and enjoy the memories you had, but don’t think of them as leftovers but chapters of your life.  

Daily Dose of BS May 5 repeal of Obamacare

Here is a big shocker that the Wisconsin House members voted along party lines.  In a house vote that saw a 217-213 vote of the repeal of Obamacare, the 5 republican Congressmen voted for the repeal while the 3 democratic Congressmen voted to keep Obamacare.  Congressman Kind said, "Never before in our nation's history has a Congress and Administration offered a health care reform bill that instead of lowering the uninsured rate actually increases the number of uninsured individuals by 24 million people”.  The bill ends the tax penalties that the affordable care act law imposed on people who didn't buy health insurance and on larger employers who don't offer coverage, this legislation also replaces Obama's subsidies for people buying individual policies with tax credits.  A couple of things that It retains from Obamacare is the requirement that family policies cover grown children up to age 26 as well as varying premiums based on gender.

Daily Dose of BS May 4 bikes

I am all for people riding their bikes, really I am.  However, yesterday afternoon during rush hour there was a bicyclist riding his bike on Lang Drive, he was in the right lane, close to the white line.  I am pretty sure that you need to give a bicyclist at least 3 feet when they are pedaling and most drivers were giving him more than 3 feet, they were giving him the entire lane, pushing traffic over the left lane until they passed the guy then the mad rush to get back to the right lane.  On a stretch of road like Lang Drive isn’t a bicyclist supposed to ride on the sidewalk rather than on the street?  Isn’t this the reason that we spent extra money on that stretch of road so that the walkers and the bikers can share some space together rather than a person on a bike causing a bit of traffic?  Also aren’t people on bike supposed to follow the rules of the road?  How many times have you seen a person on a bike pedal through a stop sign? 

Daily Dose of BS May 3 be that person

Be that person.  We have people in our lives some of them are good for us others are not, and still others slide in and out of our lives.  I had an encounter with one yesterday.  I heard water dripping in the basement yesterday after work, I went to access the situation and found a pin prick hole in one of the copper pipes leading to the non-working water conditioner.  I turned off the water and went to the hardware store to ask what could be done to fix it, the guy gave me an idea for a temporary fix but said call a plumber.  I only know one plumber, so I called him, and surprisingly he answered his phone.  He came by after work and fixed my pipe and we ended up talking for a few hours after that.  We all need people in our lives be the person who makes the difference and helps when needed.  

Daily Dose of BS May 2 school start

Thirty years ago, I graduated from high school, this year brings my class reunion and I am looking forward to BS’ing with those that I went to school with.  I had one of those birthdays that could go either way, I could have graduated in 86 or 87 since my birthday fall on August 29 my parents chose to hold me back a year.  I for one am glad that they did.  Back to the reason I brought this up, La Crosse school board is backing the repeal of the state of Wisconsin’s September 1^st school start requirement.  The school district wants to start school earlier because of the kids are already competing with sports and that the kids in football already have a few games under their belts by the time that school starts.  If the law gets repealed that district has more control over the calendar and more flexibility in planning the school year.  I get it, but I tell you what, I for one am glad that I didn’t ever have to go to school on my birthday.  

Daily Dose of BS May 1 drugs

In yesterday’s La Crosse Tribune they had an informative story on Drugs, by the numbers.  Alarming numbers.  For example, 2,944 were hospitalized at Gundersen for addiction or abuse, that Tri-State Ambulance and the La Crosse firefighters administered Narcan to 186 people last year.  The article said that in La Crosse County 25 people died of overdose, and that of the high school students surveyed that 1.5 % have taken meth in the past month and that 1.3% have used heroin at least once.  These numbers are real and the problem is not going away.  In the past month, there has been a couple of shootings in La Crosse, there have been robberies and home invasions.  When I moved to La Crosse in 1992 sure there were drugs but the biggest problem facing our future then was alcohol and alcohol abuse.  Now we still have people over consuming and now taking dangerous drugs as well.  How can we stop it?

Daily Dose of BS April 28 pizza

Everyone who eats pizza has a favorite.  Either frozen or fresh.  I have a couple of favorites in the area.  I enjoyed my favorite last night from South Lanes Pizza and Wings in Onalaska, I had to get two the 4 meat and the South Lanes special with Jalaponos on half.  I also like a couple other local pizzas, like Pizza Coral in Holmen and Great River Roadhouse in Desoto, or if we are looking for different the family and I will hit up Pizza Dr’s.  When it comes to frozen pizza I used to love the Sweet Home Chicago from Lloyd’s Pizza but I can’t find it anymore and am really beginning to like most of the Lotsa Motza pizzas that are out there, lots of cheese and a pretty good ratio of toppings to bite.  My question today is what is your favorite restaurant pizza and frozen pizza?  Also what is your favorite topping?  

Daily Dose of BS April 27 jobs

I heard a story this morning about the worst jobs out there and my job as a broadcaster comes in at #2 on the list beaten only by a newspaper reporter.  Ha, I have a job that has a negative growth rating, with a growth of -9% over the next 5 years, the median pay is $38,870, and you must move to small markets to start off your career.  What was I thinking.  Wait disc jockey is also on the list at #6 on the worst jobs out there with an 11% decrease in job growth over the next 5 years.  With a median pay rate of $30,830.  It is a good thing that I love what I do for a living.  I have had more opportunity to do different things in my career than most people, the chance to meet and interview some of your hero’s and many zeros has been a highlight and who can count out getting up at 4 am every day.  Every day, even on weekends cause you get used to it.  Honestly I wouldn’t change a thing, for me it has been a great career for my personality, plus I couldn’t see having a real job.  See the list at http://www.careercast.com/jobs-rated/worst-jobs-2017

Daily Dose of BS April 26 sidewalk chalk

A couple of graffiti tickets were handed out in Onalaska after messages like “Love is not racist”, “You are welcome here”, “There is enough room for everyone”, “You are standing on Ho-Chunk land”, “Stand up for Muslims”, and “Black lives matter” were scribbled over the sidewalk with sidewalk chalk along the city’s water front.  The women who did the writing are part of the group La Crosse Area Showing up for Racial Justice group.   What are your thoughts on the sidewalk chalk on city property?  I have always thought that it was weird that parents would allow their kids to write on city owned property.  When my kids were little I allowed sidewalk chalk but it had to be used in our yard on our sidewalks, end in the event that it was drawn on the city sidewalk, and I don’t think that it was I would have cleaned it off.  Is a ticket in this situation warranted, I don’t think so, but I believe that the mom and her daughter should grab a bucket and a scrubber of some sorts and clean up their mess.  

Daily Dose of BS April 25 roads

Unless you don’t venture outside your home you have driven on out bumpy roads, you have taken in the valleys and craters that are supposed to be smooth and clean.  Our main roads suck.  I don’t think that I noticed it so much in the past but with all the talk over the past year or so I have started to notice that our roads are horrible.  It bugs me that the when driving home from work I must straddle the line in some spots as to not get my tires stuck in the crevasses that are eroding into our city streets and our state highways.  In our last election, we voted to move forward on the PRAT tax (premier resort area tax) being the first county to do so, hoping to raise enough funds to fix our roads.  Enter Governor Walker and his change of heart now backing the use of general funds, while avoiding new taxes or fees.  I don’t know about you but I would support a gas tax increase of a few cents to help to fix our roads, if you are using the roads, don’t you think you should be helping to support the fixing of them?  

Daily Dose of BS April 24 vacation

Vacation is a time to go happily and rest, relax and enjoy life.  I did just that.  Ever had a vacation go exactly as planned?  I just came back from one of those, not a care in the world.  I had the chance to go to Marco Island, Florida, with some friends both old and new, I got to fly first class for the first time, I also tried clams for the first time, and I also accidently caught 6 sharks, and a catfish during the hunt for the massive tarpon.  I wasn’t able to land one but I got the brief opportunity to reel in with one of these fighting machines on my line.  I learned lots, relaxed much and had a fantastic time.  Then spent a couple days at the family land getting the garden prepared for the summer.  Life is grand.  When the alarm rang this morning at 4am I was ready to go back to work.  Ok, I could have used a few more days off.  

Daily Dose of BS April 14th vacation

The job that pays me offers me 21 paid days off a year, 3 weeks to do what I want, and I sometimes have a hard time taking all those days. I am not sure why, the years creep up quickly and with that being said, the vacation days keep accumulating.  As Americans we are on the low end of vacation when it comes to the industrial countries no wonder there is burn out.  Here are some signs that you need a vacation, that you are driving your family nuts with all your complaints, that you lost your sense of purpose at work, that you are having trouble sleeping, and that you would rather go get a root canal than go to work.  We need to use our vacation instead of loose it, take a day every once in a while to either sleep in, stay up late, go to breakfast or just sit around in your jammys.  If ya got the vacation use it don’t loose it.  I am not saying that I am at the point of needing a vacation but, I am off to make memories, I will see you on the 24^th.  

Daily Dose of BS April 13 technology

I think we the technology owns us.  My indication light for voice mail at work wasn’t lit this morning and I left myself a message yesterday afternoon.  I had messages that were a week old on my machine and didn’t even know that they were there.  I was wondering why people weren’t calling me back.  Technology you gotta love it.  I remember being one of the last of my friends families to get a microwave, and vcr.  We used to have to wait for things to warm up and had to watch tv when it was on and movies at the theater, we had to sit in one place to be on the phone since it was in the kitchen and attached to a cord.  My have things changed.  Could you imagine trying to go back?  I would go nuts, I am as guilty as the next guy wanting new and improved things and technology….hell I want my microwave to heat faster and my tivo to play at 2x speed so it won’t take as long to watch a show so I can get on and do something else…like nap because like the computers in your life sometimes I need a re-boot too.

Daily Dose of BS April 12 life

Have you ever thought about life, I mean really thought about what we do on a regular basis?  I do and I must be getting older because I think about life and the after life often.  I spent some time with my mom a couple of weeks ago and was enjoying having conversation with her when we started talking about getting older and the pains that come with getting older.  My mom and step dad mentioned that they had gone and bought burial spots and were excited that they were by a tree, I asked if that really mattered?  It is funny but once I am gone I figure I am gone it doesn’t matter where my remains end up does it.  I have told my wife that when I go I want to have a party and invite everyone, and have an open bar.  What the hell, one last toast.  Have you ever given any thought about this?  I really try to live my life to the fullest and try to enjoy each and every day.  

Daily Dose of BS April 11 sticks and stones

A couple of lessons learned as a kid would have helped out with yesterday’s shooting in La Crosse.  First of all sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me.  Which I know isn’t always the case because sometimes words do hurt, but don’t you think that we have a raised a bunch of thin skinned kids?  I was picked on a lot as a kid, I really think that is what made me the man I am today.  If you are reading this and were one of the people that did some of that picking, I forgive you.  And thanks.  Secondly this still rings in my ears, no playing with guns.  I will say this again, no playing with guns.  How hard is that?  Let the crap roll off your back and don’t play with guns, two of the things my Mom would always say, would have diverted yesterday’s shooting in La Crosse.  Apparently, the shooting was over a post on Facebook.  Someone posted yesterday to watch what you say on Facebook, I guess that they weren’t kidding.  

Daily Dose of BS April 10 old school

I am kind of old school.  I don’t have cable tv and I still have a land line.  It isn’t that I never had cable, I just thought that the expense of having it wasn’t worth it especially since there is services such as Hulu and Netflix out there and if you get Amazon Prime you also get streaming with that.  There really isn’t too much that I can’t see within a short time of it being broadcast.  As for the home phone I bought Ooma a couple of years ago and it hooks right into my internet and uses that to make it work.  And really how many people do you know that have home lines anymore?  My Dad got rid of his a few years ago, my Mom and one brother still have a land line but other than a few others that I know the land line is only in their homes because they get a bargain on getting their cable and internet if they have a home line.  In fact less than 40 % of American homes have telephones and one in 5 have dumped cable.